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TOXIC RELATIONSHIP.

 Everybody wants to be emotionally and physically close to each other.life always seems better when shared.Relationships like most of the things on earth requires effort.Think of it this way even good relationship take work.Toxic relationship is characterized toxic traits like controlling behaviours,frequent lying and so many. I didn't know the existence of toxic relationship until my uni friend went through it.When we joined first year he met this 4th year guy who they really fell in love . During the first month , they move in together.She told me ,she knew from the day she met him that he was probably not the right man for her,but she was really attracted. Six months ,it  received the first verbal and emotional abuse and started to become a way of life.This guy was not there for he emotionally but he was only there for pleasure.He would even get angry at times and slap her.She left him the first time but ended up going back because she had very little resources to survive o...

KNOW YOUR COUNTY.

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 Do you happen to know your county? By name and location? As for me,I am a proud host of kericho county.That is the main reason why I am going to take you this article so that you may more about my county and even get to visit my county. As you know , Kericho county is one of the 47 counties in Kenya.It is found in the former Rift valley province.The name Kericho originated in the pre-colonial era.There was a great medicine man in kericho town whose name was Kipkerich .Therefore,the area was associated with kerichek   ( kipsigis name for medicine) in that when someone was sick ,he would  say I am going to see kipkerich. Later the name underwent phonetic shift to become Kericho. The county Government of Kericho is headed by the Governor prof.H.E Paul Chepkwony and his deputy H.E Lily Ngok.The senator is Aaron cheruiyot and the women representative is Florence Bore.The county is made of six sub-counties, Bureti,Ainamoi,Kipkelion east , Kipkelion West,Belgut and Soin.It...

HEALTHY HABITS TO FOSTER IN RELATIONSHIPS.

 Have you ever thought why too many relationship don't work out? Either in marriage, dating, between buddies and family? During Corona period,so many relationships were broken,here are some healthy habits one need to foster in relationships. 1.One has to learn to say good job and mean it-this applies to everyone ,when one has done something nice,or gotten a job,promoted,make an achievement,you are required to say good job and always mean it. 2.Always have an argument in style- have different argumentive styles,for example you don't  shout to your significant other in front of a lot of people,he/she will be embarrassed ,or for the married people you don't have to argue in front of the kids , go get a room. 3.Be present in the moment you are having a conversation -for example don't always be on your phone when you significant other ,or friend is discussing an important topic. 4.Intentionally know when it's time to pick up a fight - Don't start an argument when you...